A reminder for Momma's...

Heat exhaustion is a milder form of heat-related illness that can develop after several days of exposure to high temperatures and inadequate or unbalanced replacement of fluids.

Warning signs of heat exhaustion include:

heavy sweating
paleness
muscle cramps
tiredness
weakness
dizziness
headache
nausea or vomiting
fainting

Poor Drewby.

I miss Cole Allen.

He loves icy pops, Gatorade, thick turkey sandwiches, shooting paint balls at shed doors, four-wheeling, kayaking, dark bedrooms, shopping, and shoes.

We have a big empty space at our house.

And in our hearts.

A week wasn't long enough. Come back soon!

Proverbs 22:6

When it comes to raising two boys to love the Lord, we can use all the help we can get. I am amazed every day at things that God reveals to those that are earnestly seeking to do His will. You can just imagine my thrill when I received a message in my inbox from an old school friend.

Hey Joni, I have some thoughts on parenting a tweenager. Since all kids are different I don’t believe there is a formula. However, as a youth leader who has seen hundreds of teenagers pass through the church, there does seem to be a pattern. I would strongly advise you to make your kids go to church and youth group. Quick story: I was talking with my wife and another guy in his 20s when a mother came up to me and said “My daughter (10 yrs) doesn’t want to go to church. I can’t make her. What should I do.” I responded by saying, “My parents made me go.” My wife said, “My parents made me go.” And the guy with us said the same thing. That’s 3 people in their 20s—an age demographic missing in most churches—who were not only in church, but committed to the mission of Christ, and they were forced to go to church as kids.
Two other thoughts:
You and your husband have to model what is real. You have to exhibit the Fruits of the Spirit. Your kids have to see you on your knees and in Scripture. They have to see you love the unlovely. If they don’t see it in you, it won’t be real. I asked a father of two daughters who love the Lord how he raised them to be that way. He said he’d let them answer. They both sent me e-mails that said the things above. They had Christ modeled to them, not just taught.
Last thing, and then I’ll leave you alone! Materialism and Contemporary American Christianity have a chokehold on our society. My wife and I are saving our tax returns for the next decade to take our son to an impoverished nation when he is 10 or so. We want him to see what the rest of the world is like outside of this illusion we call America. If you have the resources, I strongly recommend taking your son on a 2-week mission trip to an impoverished country.
As a youth pastor I am so happy to hear that you take this seriously. We need more parents like you.

I appreciate his genuine care and concern for Drew, Nate and I as parents, and his teens. I am so thankful for the body of Christ that rallies one another to stand for what is right and pure and true.

I have a few questions and answers for you...

1. Who influenced you and how?
My parents... their Christianity shaped every avenue of their life. My mom taught me loving submission (even when it was hard to do) and my dad taught me the importance of modesty.

2. Did your parent(s) "make you" go to church and youth group?
Most definitely.

3. What is the biggest parenting struggle you have?
Disciplining with wisdom. Which battle to fight... which lesson to teach... holding back anger.

4. What is one thing you hope to accomplish by the time your children leave your home?
A maturing personal relationship with Jesus Christ. How to treat their spouse. And doing their own laundry. That would be nice.

The goal of godly parenting is to raise children who know the Lord as their personal Savior and who love His Word. In order for this to happen, parents must:

1. Consistently be involved with their children in order to create a nurturing atmosphere

2. Clearly instruct their children according to God’s Word

3. Enforce the consequences for disobedience

4. Encourage the conformity to what is virtuous

Pastor Terry Covey

Still frequenting Goodwill weekly...

I love the fact that I can buy stuff that I wouldn't buy full price at Target for fear that I would never wear in public.

Like fedora hats. And furs. And bikini bottoms that will never see the sun.

And Audrey Hepburn sunglasses.

So, tell me, what bargains have you found lately?

On Monday I bought two new Target shirts (Liberty of London) and four skirts.
And a seashell necklace.
And those dinner plates that sit on your face.

Nice try, Joni, buuuut, no.

July - April

*insert uncomfortable blog apology here explaining all the lame excuses why I haven't been posting*

Whirrrr. Click. Rewind.

movie. children's church. fireworks. pond. drew gone to chesapeake bay. fireworks. paint. laurie, jude, and maddie overnight. pond. cole left and i cried. james river. cole here all week. arrival of baby carsen. vbs. morgan's graduation party. pond. new conference church in lima. ohio trip. bible study. paint murals for vbs. pool. church. finn's last game. pond. abbie's wedding. rehearsal. sew. sew. sew. sew. drew game. awards assembly. school picnic. serve at 5th grade graduation. kindergarten graduation. decorate for graduation. church. soccer games. soccer pictures. games. practice. ohio trip. sort Grandma's stuff. volunteer. games and practices. church. ben and kim's wedding. meeting after school. volunteer. games and practices. sew annual meeting dresses. children's church. ramble. my best friend is pregnant! alisha's baby shower. blackout. talent show. laura's for last bible study. dentist. church. practice and games. mother's day breakfast. day of prayer at armory. field trip. awana graduation. church. practices and games. awana store night. nate's birthday. MOMS group. work kindergarten registration. volunteer. pictures. practice and games. dentist. ellie's birthday party. awards assembly. games. church.

Now you're caught up.
And I'm exhausted.

I'll try to do better on the blog thing.

Boots, a Barn, and a Beautiful Bride.

Carefully sewn dresses hung in a closet.

Scribbled line-up notes thrown away.

Guitar chords faded.

Tears wiped away.

Hydrangeas wilted.

Tissue paper balls crushed.

Cake eaten.

Taillights disappearing down the lane.

It's all over and Abbie's hitched, but what remains is a love big enough to last a lifetime.

Love is right here. Love is alive.
Love is the way, the truth, the life.
Love is the river than flows through,
Love is the arms that are holding you.
Love is the place you will fly to,
Love never fails you.

Synchronizing.... Do not disconnect.

I love our iPod. I love my iTunes library. Don't get me started on it. I love playlists. I love the handy dandy tabs. Like "Top 25 Most Played" or "Recommendations for You." I would love to take a look at your library... I think you can really tell a lot about someone by their songs.

Anyways, in my last bible study, I got to a paragraph that made me grab my highlighter.

Like everyone else, I sometimes fail, but what a joy it is to pray to God the way Jesus showed me: "Lord, Thy will be done." When we pray according to the will of God, we get on the same wavelength as God. And as we pray, little by little, God takes all the things that are out of sync in our life and puts them in sync until we can take a deep breath and say, "Oh, yes, that's the way it's supposed to be! .... How much energy would we save if we said, "All right, Lord, I don't understand it, it doesn't make a lot of sense to me, I can't figure it all out - but if this is Your will, I'm going to do it. I don't want to get out of sync with you!" ?

I quietly giggled because I love to sync my iPod, so I knew exactly what David Jeremiah meant. If I buy a new song, I hook up the iPod so it will sync my new song ASAP.

David Jeremiah makes it sound so simple. Pray according to the will of God. I truly want to be in sync with God, but sometimes those words are hard to say in the middle of a crisis. Or when I am praying for Drew and Finn. Or when what I really want is My Will to be done. But even more than my will, I want to be at that place where I can say, "Oh YES! That's the way it's supposed to be!" So little by little, I am learning to pray it more confidently.

And for now, I have a new reminder. Praying Thy Will Be Done is my own personal iJoni Synchronizing button.

By the way, our #1 most played song is By The Mark by Dailey and Vincent (70 times).



#2 is The Outsiders by Needtobreathe (51 times).



See what I mean? This tells YOU that Nate overplays songs that he is trying to learn on the guitar.